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Playground politics.

I’m a great mom.
So what, I haven’t taught him how to blow a kiss or give a high-five… I’m still a great mom (even though I didn’t feel like a great mom when his uncle was trying to get him to blow a kiss and high-five last night….).
I love him unconditionally.  I’m there when he [...]

Mother of the Year

Wow, talk about a parenting fail.
Earlier this month Oscar’s first tooth came through.  He got the second one, just days later.  And I precisely remember noting to myself as I cuddled him when he was having a hard time with it, “I’ll never forget what teething cries sound like.”
Well, I forgot.
For the past two nights, he’s had [...]

And… Scene.

Scene:
You’re at a park having a picnic with some friends and family.
Strike One:  your child missed his early evening nap.  He’s tired.  And hungry… you’re also about 20 minutes late for his early evening feed.  (Strike Two.)
Someone is holding him while eating and chatting with the rest of us. 
He’s getting fidgetty.  He’s getting to that sleepy stage [...]

Zzzzzzzz…

My frustration with O eating solid food is SO yesterday.  Now we’re on to something totally new.
He’s waking during the night.
Oscar has slept through the night since he was nine weeks old.  We had a few weeks of wake ups in the beginning as he was learning to fall back to sleep by himself.  But he [...]

Grrrrrr.

In the short 6.5 months since Oscar has been here, I’ve only been frustrated once.
And that was in the early months when I didn’t understand his cries.  Not that I understand them all now, but I digress.
Fast forward to introducing solids.
Grrrrrr.
I’m having a hard time with the fact that he only eats MAYBE a teaspoon at each [...]

Disaster Parenting

Trial and Error.  Live and Learn. 
I’m starting to understand these phrases.  I think they were written with me in mind.
So last night was the weekly Dinner with the Inlaws.  It was especially busy because it was three of the siblings’ birthdays.  And when I say “especially busy” I mean that there were 22 people there [...]

Hot Hot Heat

I’m in British Columbia and we are experiencing the hottest heat for the longest period since 1880.
SINCE EIGHTEEN EIGHTY!
What does that mean for an almost-six month old?
More eating.
If you have an exclusively breastfed baby, breastfeed him more often during hot spells (if so hot that you’re worried about dehydration).  This is what I was told [...]

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

It wasn’t too long ago that I realized not every cry is a “Come get me, I’m in distress” cry.  It was a tough road to that realization, but now that I know, my life is much easier.  As is Oscar’s. 
At times I’m sure he was (is) saying, “Mom, geez, leave me alone, I’m just [...]