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Like a Punch in the Stomach: follow up.

Everyone left such great comments on the PPD post.  I started to address you all in a comment myself, but realized I had more to say than a quick blurb.  What each of you said really resonated with me in different ways and has helped tremendously – and has also inspired more writing – which [...]

Like a Punch in the Stomach. For 6 months.

Someone posed the question on Twitter the other day, “Anyone have any child rearing myths they want to share?” Hell yeah! What a great question! I immediately hit reply and put my fingers on the keyboard, all excited and ready to share. But I didn’t know where to start. So I started with, “Don’t worry, [...]

Perinatal Mental Health Study

The first few weeks months after Oscar was born, I was f*cked up. F*cked. Up. I had no idea whatsoever what I was doing. I was in almost unbearable physical pain. I didn’t have, not even close, the support I truly needed. I was adjusting, and too slowly, to life with a new addition (ok, [...]

Juggling Act

There’s all this talk about work/life balance, balancing your family time with time for yourself and having a harmonious balance of “doing” and “being”. Yeah, whatever. There’s no balance. There’s only juggling. Sure, when I was single or before having a child, I could balance to hell and back, but that’s because I only had [...]

It’s all about me.

Now that Oscar is almost one year old, I’m ready to start doing things for myself again. *GASP* The first year of his life, well, it was all about him.   And rightly so.  I mean, of COURSE it’s all about him, but what I’m trying to get at is that various choices and decisions we [...]

I’m all for change… as long as it doesn’t affect me.

A new friend and I were chatting one night about being new moms.   One thing she said that stuck with me was, ”You’ll be SO afraid to try anything different”.  I didn’t understand at the time.  AT ALL.  I mean not whatsoever.  But I filed it away for future reference.  I just knew that it would make sense someday. [...]